09-29-2025, 05:50 PM
A question? Been a while since any asked me anything.
@Sirius,
No,
As a member I was lamenting that another member feels dissuaded from creating a thread.
The post was casually echoed, and I felt there was room to comment.
It bothered some because my chosen role is to avoid these kinds of negative feelings about something so important (at least to me) just using their voice here.
If it needs saying, my intent was not to establish a delineation between members who moderate and those who don't, but to try an share how we are much more alike than different... and 'jumping' in where frictions arise is something that can be hard to do (but we do try.)
I am unclear about the perception that there is angst accompanying the question. But I can only say (even if it's embarrassingly revealing) I am not sure I understand why there is a problem in the exchange. I was only responding directly to Q (with a nod to ANNEE whose experience may have been the exemplar.)
I offer no members as examples, I make no generalized slights... please explain where I may have gone wrong...
@Sirius,
No,
As a member I was lamenting that another member feels dissuaded from creating a thread.
The post was casually echoed, and I felt there was room to comment.
It bothered some because my chosen role is to avoid these kinds of negative feelings about something so important (at least to me) just using their voice here.
If it needs saying, my intent was not to establish a delineation between members who moderate and those who don't, but to try an share how we are much more alike than different... and 'jumping' in where frictions arise is something that can be hard to do (but we do try.)
I am unclear about the perception that there is angst accompanying the question. But I can only say (even if it's embarrassingly revealing) I am not sure I understand why there is a problem in the exchange. I was only responding directly to Q (with a nod to ANNEE whose experience may have been the exemplar.)
I offer no members as examples, I make no generalized slights... please explain where I may have gone wrong...




