Mass shooting at south Minneapolis church

[BeyondKnowledge]

Coping skills, some people have them, some do not... 

Some people who can't cope find help and adjust 

Some people who can't cope, do not find help, and thier lives spiral out of what is considered normal.

A really small percentage of those people with whatever personal issues and no coping skills will lash out when there is no pressure relief valve in their lives

The more shit on you pile on your plate...the more shit you have to "eat" during your life...

its a numbers game

Coping must be learned early on. The participation trophies hurt this learning. When you fail at small things and learn to deal with it, you are learning how to deal with the big failures later.

Life is not all what you want it to be and all about you. Some don't learn this until it is beyond their ability to deal with it.



As to the trans and gay being a mental illness, as a group it is not. But there are individuals that take it too far and expect everyone to celebrate them. Most will tolerate them but that is not what they are seeking. This is where they start loosing it.

The same can be said for any group that can be singled out. There are ones that make a neusance of themselves then they don't understand why most people don't like them. 

If being trans or gay is all you are in life and you want everyone around you to celebrate how great that is, you are making your own problem. Be different but don't try to force its acceptance on everyone. You will get more friends and less enemies that way.