What are you thinking about?

[Quantum12]

It's the absence of loyalty.
Sincerity alone makes me often presume loyalty is there as well.

I think sincerity without loyalty engenders sly lies...
"A slap in the face," or perhaps a "sucker punch," as it were.

These are the acts of lost people.
People who think it's OK to lie to themselves while they lie to you.
Honor is lost in the confusion. Dignity becomes the victim.

Please forgive me, if I misunderstood.

You have it right! I think you are a doctor or should be!