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Beware here...
Children are not objects...
they are young people.
No matter how hard you beat a child...
a little... a lot... it's the adult that carries the scar.
Love is the only thing that keeps us from destroying ourselves over things like this.
"gender questioning" is a personal internal affair... it is resolved by the individual who lives
with whatever decision he or she makes....
Mistakes will be made.
Characterizing anything outside the mind of the child is a fool's gambit.
Individuals start out as individuals...
Then"society meddles" because the parents let them.
Even when we find ourselves frustrated and threatened by anyone else's choices, we have to accept that some decisions are their to make...
I said SOME. "Parenting" is hard.
(That's why institutions "pretend" they can do it.)
Maybe some could... if they weren't managed by damaged human baggage, perpetually in denial over their own abject failures.
Anti-trans sentiment appear to me to be legacy hatred over homosexuality in general.
Most of us were to some degree indoctrinated to socially persecute these individuals... and we are slowly (perhaps too slowly for some) absorbing a bitter pill....
How a person feels about themselves... it's none of your business really.
But it is bolstered by another bitter pill the activist hate...
"It's not only your world... everyone, every social group, must negotiate it's presence with the world.
Some can simply glide in... others slowly change biases, 'walk.... don't run'... (a good example being the measured non-violence of the feminist movement of old.)
You can't FORCE lasting social change... EVER... it has NEVER WORKED - EVER - in history.