Why do we not want to contact the other side?

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I don’t think I gave a proper explanation in my last post, I was short on time again. 

Yeah there is time as in space-time which isn’t exactly as straightforward as we often think. 

Then there is our perception of time, not just our varying perception of the passing of time but also the other kingdoms different perception and related life span. 

What I meant was when we are completely unconscious, alive and healthy but in deep sleep or induced under anaesthesia, time doesn’t exist for us at all because we aren’t experiencing anything. We are still in there but have been shut off from the brain, as soon as a connection is again established we snap back in. It’s not that consciousness is a product of the brain because of this though, it’s that the brain needs to have the pathways enabled for consciousness to operate in the brain. 
Think of a computer it’s just a load of hardware until you turn it on, that’s the brain but still useless until you boot up the operating system that’s equivalent to consciousness. Then we run various programs on it which are like our thoughts etc..
But when that hardware fails or is shut down, the operating system is still there. Sure it too can be corrupted or attacked by malware, but it can be debugged too. 

It’s a very similar analogy to how we are. 


Also even Atoms and their particles behave under the laws we can compute, quantify and make equations from. All that is information. Another way to think of it is all is vibration, An endless dance of the poles or opposites.

The universe is indeed all about frequency and vibration.

And that's not just mystical, it maps onto physics.
 
Quantum mechanics shows that particles behave like waves, with energy levels defined by frequencies.
 
Sound and light are vibrations, different frequencies give us colours, tones, even resonance.
 
String theory suggests reality's building blocks are comprised of tiny vibrating strings.

The cosmic microwave background is literally a faint vibration of the Big Bang(debatable), still resonating.

None of which, unfortunately, explains consciousness in any sort of totality, where it comes from, how it grows, or indeed where it goes, after we shuffle off the mortal coil.