05-11-2024, 02:13 PM
It's natural for every individual to experience a different metric of privacy. I can't imagine that 'not sleeping in the same bed' is a detriment to anything, outside the practice of sexual union.
For some it is important, for some it is necessary. But that doesn't mean it is so for all. Nor should extenuating circumstance have to be a burden of the relationship of any couple that can't comfortably sleep side by side. People adapt. Tradition can become 'stale.' "Efforts" and "coordination" can be enticing.
Regardless, I am one of those who used to watch TV and scoff every time they showed married couples' bedroom featuring two beds... I felt it ludicrous.
But when infirmity strikes... it can make sense... besides, there is a certain allure to 'ritualizing' joining up for a romp! It could be made a fun thing... depending on the couple.. and their 'proclivities.' Just sayin'.
For some it is important, for some it is necessary. But that doesn't mean it is so for all. Nor should extenuating circumstance have to be a burden of the relationship of any couple that can't comfortably sleep side by side. People adapt. Tradition can become 'stale.' "Efforts" and "coordination" can be enticing.
Regardless, I am one of those who used to watch TV and scoff every time they showed married couples' bedroom featuring two beds... I felt it ludicrous.
But when infirmity strikes... it can make sense... besides, there is a certain allure to 'ritualizing' joining up for a romp! It could be made a fun thing... depending on the couple.. and their 'proclivities.' Just sayin'.
