02-19-2024, 04:59 PM
What great concepts, ideas and research. I wasn't sure what to expect but couldn't stop reading, thanks.
As someone who now lives a quiet life as an introvert and as a self-healing sigma male I have felt both sides of affection and contact in my life from extreme to none. It affords a good perspective to understand how the flows of energy can work, especially between two individuals or in a group.
Holding hands is just one touch method and very different when it comes to men beyond a handshake, and I think it would create a nervousness if it were to happen in the traditional sense. A hand on a shoulder would have a better effect perhaps, although it would probably not be skin on skin. A "biker" handshake may be the nearest thing as it's length can have meaning.
The flow of electrons between people works obviously with the positives and the negatives we all feel and it sometimes far easier for an individual to absorb the negatives of another who is needing to relieve themselves and share them if they have a source of contact because the individuals thoughts and feelings are not also transferred with a touch, however, the extreme to this situation is when a person also wants another to absorb the feelings and negative thoughts, wave a metaphorical magic wand to "make it all go away" and any flow is blocked by a demanding nature (Karens & Kevins) and could also be accentuated by frustration and projected disappointment.
I suppose this goes back to the concept of forming a complete circle between two individuals who can ground out those negative waves/electrons/feelings. The evolution to that is the linking of two complete individual circles, that's special, as they fuel eachother with little demand or compensation needed from the other.
We can accumulate a huge amount of power in ourselves, and we still have a long way to go if we are ever to solve the problems of not being able to control it properly or not being able to ground the negatives and spin up the positives. All part of the human condition.
Cats help, dogs too. The contact works in a similar way I suppose, the grounding of a negative human feeling without needing to express it for a positive one recieved just by a single touch.
As someone who now lives a quiet life as an introvert and as a self-healing sigma male I have felt both sides of affection and contact in my life from extreme to none. It affords a good perspective to understand how the flows of energy can work, especially between two individuals or in a group.
Holding hands is just one touch method and very different when it comes to men beyond a handshake, and I think it would create a nervousness if it were to happen in the traditional sense. A hand on a shoulder would have a better effect perhaps, although it would probably not be skin on skin. A "biker" handshake may be the nearest thing as it's length can have meaning.
The flow of electrons between people works obviously with the positives and the negatives we all feel and it sometimes far easier for an individual to absorb the negatives of another who is needing to relieve themselves and share them if they have a source of contact because the individuals thoughts and feelings are not also transferred with a touch, however, the extreme to this situation is when a person also wants another to absorb the feelings and negative thoughts, wave a metaphorical magic wand to "make it all go away" and any flow is blocked by a demanding nature (Karens & Kevins) and could also be accentuated by frustration and projected disappointment.
I suppose this goes back to the concept of forming a complete circle between two individuals who can ground out those negative waves/electrons/feelings. The evolution to that is the linking of two complete individual circles, that's special, as they fuel eachother with little demand or compensation needed from the other.
We can accumulate a huge amount of power in ourselves, and we still have a long way to go if we are ever to solve the problems of not being able to control it properly or not being able to ground the negatives and spin up the positives. All part of the human condition.
Cats help, dogs too. The contact works in a similar way I suppose, the grounding of a negative human feeling without needing to express it for a positive one recieved just by a single touch.
Wisdom knocks quietly, always listen carefully. And never hit "SEND" or "REPLY" without engaging brain first.
