04-24-2024, 01:31 PM
I don't wish to avoid the question... but I will. I understand you are looking for greener pastures, a place where you can exist without endless struggle to 'survive.'
But I would like to say that you don't have to be alone. You may be able to 'team up' with trusted friends or even associates who can share the common burdens of housing and such. Also, I don't presume that you can coexist with family (that's a hard thing to do for many) but frankly, that's what family is for in my book.
I'm sorry you have found so many frictions and problems in your career... but I can confidently say, you are not alone. Your observations ring true with many folks I have conversed with. Many of them would say "I know your pain" and mean it.
The best course of action is usually one which is planned and well thought out. If you are finding your area unforgiving, unsupportive, and or unwelcoming you should start thinking in terms of changing your environment... but there is a difference between leaving and escaping... plan to leave... don't expect it to be much different anywhere because without a trusted Sherpa you will still be on your own... we are not designed to be 'alone' (which doesn't mean you can't be alone, only that it is less fluid and simple alone.)
Sorry for the indirect response. But I will include you in my prayers because I feel your grief, and see it also in my own world.
But I would like to say that you don't have to be alone. You may be able to 'team up' with trusted friends or even associates who can share the common burdens of housing and such. Also, I don't presume that you can coexist with family (that's a hard thing to do for many) but frankly, that's what family is for in my book.
I'm sorry you have found so many frictions and problems in your career... but I can confidently say, you are not alone. Your observations ring true with many folks I have conversed with. Many of them would say "I know your pain" and mean it.
The best course of action is usually one which is planned and well thought out. If you are finding your area unforgiving, unsupportive, and or unwelcoming you should start thinking in terms of changing your environment... but there is a difference between leaving and escaping... plan to leave... don't expect it to be much different anywhere because without a trusted Sherpa you will still be on your own... we are not designed to be 'alone' (which doesn't mean you can't be alone, only that it is less fluid and simple alone.)
Sorry for the indirect response. But I will include you in my prayers because I feel your grief, and see it also in my own world.