Cougars the male loneliness epidemic- hagmaxxing

[putnam6]

So I watched one of her videos and this popped up on my YouTube feed.

It's hilarious that women are so inept or intolerant in building relationships they have to resort, to searching the extreme age ranges for dysfunctional cougar-hunting "men". Not just for the horizontal bop but for actual LTR relationships, you know where 35 men are pervs for dating 20-year-old women but vice versa is fine and empowering for women.

Ive had FWBs over the years so I get that aspect, but no one over 5-6 years younger, would be hard to relate. When I was 35 and just divorced I was with a 48 divorcee and it was fantastic for about 6 weeks or so. But damn one night together I made the mistake of riding with her and leaving my car at the shopping center about 45 minutes away, she didn't take me back to my car till early Monday, after breakfast on Saturday morning I already felt trapped, she was perfectly fine it was me LOL. My only escape was I raked her backyard pruned the hedges and trees and cleaned out her fire pit. It was like in the evening in the right setting we were fine and could talk but outside enjoying a few cocktails and being flirtatious, we were at different places mentally

I've always preferred the deeper thinkers even in high school, those you could talk to in-depth about something besides thier pets. For an actual relationship, I need intellectual stimulation and conversation with someone where we push each other a little bit and do projects together otherwise I'd get bored AF. Now Im 60 it's more like the 53 to 67 range is the sweet spot as far as I'd push the envelope to go cougaring, Im sure there are exceptions but generally, what does that say about our society whats good for the goose is not "good" for the gander nor should it be

[Sirius]

You can tell a poisonous spider by it's colors, red thorax with white dots. The video is clearly a trap.
 

 Now Im 60 it's more like the 53 to 67 range is the sweet spot as far as I'd push the envelope to go cougaring,

I don't know how I feel about heading towards a age where old people will think it's fine to date me  

[putnam6]

You can tell a poisonous spider by it's colors, red thorax with white dots. The video is clearly a trap.
 



I don't know how I feel about heading towards a age where old people will think it's fine to date me  

It's not you specifically, not to mention its not particularly difficult to stay away from a certain age demographic its not as if some old boomer or cougar should be able to trick you about thier age #1 but it's just there is a noticeable statistical increase in older women seeking dysfunctional young men who are having problems connecting with women in thier age range according to the video.  #2 This has been going on for decades, back in the 80s there were definite "cougar" bars in our neighborhood.

That was just hooking up whereas now they are shacking up like a Jerry Springer show.

As a guy this seems infinitely much worse, to need a relationship and or require a Sugar Momma

Regardless it's just a supposed increase not sure of the exact numbers

It's just now it's spreading its wings and trying to go mainstream according to the video.

I did find the video more entertaining than most liberal drivel I come across, and FWIW she was disgusted by the age difference by either sex, so in the end it is one thing I agree with a New York liberal about.